Bane doesnt do strife anymore folks. I really wish I had bookmarked that thread in candlekeep and the pages on WotC that mention the errata in some of the books. I'll try and dig it up. Strife is Cyric's domain.
Bane is tyranny, hatred and fear.
Some ideas of how I believe Banites can be played convincingly-:
* Manipulate through fear those you cannot yet control. The best types of fears to work with are people's fears of their own inadequacies, these fears can be used to manipulate others into serving you, strong leader that you are.
* Dominate through fear those you can easily control
* Allow no failure to go unpunished in those you control
* Choose your battles based on what your ultimate goals are, every tyrant has to have vision. Dominate one sphere of influence after another, but dont overreach for that is the mark of the undisciplined tyrant who will inevitably fail. Dont underreach as this will prove you a coward and not fit to be a disciple of Bane.
* Priests (and strong followers of a particular god) dont need to prosetylise all the time. Banites can be very matter-of-fact and open about their worship while not displaying the expected tendencies of a power-junky and a control freak (even though under the surface they all are without exception)
(eg. even though I know I am supposed to hate Bane, but that X seems like a stand-up feller, not at all what I expected. By the way he's asked me to come down and meet some friends of his, I think I'll go and see what he has to say).
When it comes down to who they really are, their true colours will emerge eventually but they'll never lie about their faith, it shows weakness.
* Banites will show respect for those more powerful than themselves as great leaders must also know how and when to follow. Bane is more powerful than anybody and must be obeyed first and foremost.
You need to go listen to Tool's - Opiate to get yourself pumped up to be a real Banite
*croons*
"Deaf and blind and dumb and born to follow, what you need is someone strong to guide you, like mee!"